Why is it we have been together all these years and I feel distance
Why is it that I have no me and you time
Why is it that you don’t even notice me
Why stay with someone if your not happy or you don’t want to be there, So much I see and wish it was you and me! The sad part is I know that it will never happen!
I FEEL SOME KIND OF WAY
I feel some kind of way but don’t really know what it is. I want to be held by him then I don’t. I miss him then I don’t. I want him to love on me but he don’t. I want to love on him but he won’t allow me. But wait sometimes he just want me to love on him but he don’t want to love on me!! Not Fair!!! I want to feel that same love. I wonder should I wait maybe he will come around and change but then I get that gut feeling that NO he may not change if he haven’t changed after all this time… WOW this feeling is driving me crazy and I really don’t know what to do.
WHO AM I? iAmJameelaj. SOMEONE WHO DARE TO BE DIFFERENT I’M NOT YOU AND YOUR NOT ME!!!! I LOVE WHO I AM AND YOU SHOULD TOO…. BEAUTY IS ONLY SKIN DEEP SO DON’T COVER UP YOUR BEAUTY. GOD CREATED US ALL DIFFERENT BECAUSE WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT PLANS IN LIFE. TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SEE HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE… TELL YOUR SELF THAT YOU LOVE YOU. IN ORDER TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE YOU MUST FIRST LOVE YOURSELF. REMEMBER THAT GOD IS LOVE AND GOD LOVES YOU AND I LOVE YOU TOO….
HOW SHOULD I FEEL
I seat here and wonder how should I be feeling about this man I love. I just want him to love on me and me to love on him but he wont allow me to and I always wonder why? I sometimes feel he don’t feel the way I feel! I love to show my LOVE and AFFECTION but he don’t! I love to hang out with him but he don’t! I love spending time with him but for some reason he seem to be irratated when we are alone! I feel like I have endure this pain long enough and I no longer want it because I know that LOVE should not hurt!!!!! But you know some people say that Love Hurt but in reality its the people who you are in Love with that hurt you!!! Maybe cause they don’t feel the same way as you do. He have this power over me, and it sucks!!! He have this nochalant attitude like he don’t care to be bothered. He say he Love me and care but never show it. “My being here show that I Love You and care” At the end of each day I ask myself why, why stay how do you feel?!? Everyone deseves to be happy. When you can answer your own question then you know what needs to be done at the end of the day!!!!
Summer Hair Care
Hair Care during Summers…
The main problem with summers is that they drain out the moisture from your hair. Exposing your hair to direct sunlight is very bad for your hair as this can even lead to complete burning of the hair. All the hair care tips for summer mentioned below revolve around how we can retain that moisture and how we can avoid more drying of our hair.
Shelter for Hair
It is very important that you shelter your hair from the scorching sun as a prevention that wasting time and money on the cure later. Wearing scarves is the best option you have. Hats and caps are also good options, specially if you’re at the beach, but then these at times, lead to sweating. If you tie your hair in a bun, you automatically prevent some portions to remain hidden from the sunlight. Any such hairstyles can help from excessive drying due to sunlight. You can use anything you want to cover your hair but make sure it isn’t too tight on your scalp as this reduces blood circulation there.
Say ‘NO’ to Anything that is Hot
Anything that is hot, is a strict no-no for your hair in summers. Stay away from blow dries at all times. Don’t style your hair all the time in the summers and try to keep it as natural as possible. Straightening irons and curlers should also be avoided as they expose your hair to heat when there is already more of it than required. Do not wash your hair with hot water and instead opt for lukewarm or even better, cold water. Blow drying should be avoided in all cases.
Necessity of Hydration
One of the best hair care tips for summer that is sure to help you prevent most problems is to consciously stay hydrated. This will help you to fight many problems including the drying of hair due to the sunlight. A good intake of water will help you to retain the moisture in your hair. It is said that a diet that is full of vitamins and proteins is also very good for maintaining healthy hair during summers.
No to Chemicals
Make sure you don’t expose your hair to any chemicals during the summer and opt for only natural therapies. Shampoos, conditioners or any oils that you choose to use should be checked for alcohol and formaldehyde. These cause the hair to dry faster than necessary and sometimes even make the hair frizzy and cause split ends. Chemicals in hair colors and highlights should also be avoided. In the summers, keep your look as natural as possible.
These were some hair care tips for summer that will help you maintain your hair all through the summer season. Do not shampoo your hair everyday, instead rinse and condition it. Another hair problem during summers is oily dandruff which can be fought by keeping your hair clean at all times. Washing your hair with cold water will also make sure that your cuticles are closed. Keep it Natural!
By Neha Joshi
Light Skin -vs- Dark Skin STILL an issue
You would think that we would be at a point now that we wouldn’t still be walking around with hatred in our hearts for each other because of skin color; especially as we consistently acknowledge ourselves as “the black community.” Who hasn’t heard that most light skinned people are stuck up, think they are better than darker skinned people, use your lightness as an advantage (and are allowed to) and just have overall cocky attitudes? Who hasn’t heard that darker skinned African-Americans are meaner, have bad attitudes and generally don’t like light skinned African-Americans? Or If you are too light some people (ignorant people) immediately think that you are stuck on yourself, you are siddity and cocky and you will use your skin color to your advantage and you will beallowed to get away with it. People will accuse you of getting more privileges because of your skin color and many will dislike you from the moment you walk through the door. If you are too dark some people (ignorant people) immediately think that your attitude will reach the room before you do. They will think that you are mean and spiteful and that regardless of the situation you won’t agree, because you are confrontational and always hard to get along with. Where do these ideas come from? Some will say slavery (I agree) some will say personal experiences (I agree) some will say ignorance (I agree)
Why do people say LOVE hurts?
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