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Apr 28

NARS DOUBLE YOUR PLEASURE…….

Multiple Orgasms The current chapter of a cultural phenomenon: Another Orgasm. (That’s right, now there are multiple!) Only this time, it’s a lip gloss. After the unprecedented success of NARS’ now famous Orgasm blush, Sephora teamed up with the experts at NARS to create an exclusive, high shine gloss that imparts the exact same peachy-pink finish, along with 2 Duo Lip Glosses, a Duo Blush/Bronzer, and a Multiple Stick that pair this must-have shade with other NARS favorites. Already a best-seller, multiple Orgasms are proving to be better than one.

Lip Gloss in Orgasm, $24
This peachy-pink gloss, spiked with hints of gold shimmer, flatters every skin tone, leaving lips with a kissable, flushed finish.

Blush in Orgasm, $27
The name says it all. Trust us, the soft sexy flush that this peach-pink shimmer leaves on cheeks looks just like you had the real thing

The Multiple - Orgasm, $39
Now, in addition to Multiple Orgasm is The Multiple - in Orgasm. Spread the love to cheeks, lips, or anywhere you crave a healthy flush of color.

Apr 24

Beyonce’s new song, ‘Girls (Who Run The World)

Beyonce is back, honey, with another anthem for independent women everywhere.

Images were all over the Internet last week from the set of a music video, widely reported to be the clip accompanying the single “Girls” from her new album, which is expected in June.

Now a demo version of the track “Girls (Who Run the World)” has leaked and lives in various fan-created tribute clips on YouTube. Quick insight into the song: It’s about girls who run the world. 

“Who run this … ?” Beyonce asks with well-deserved authority, preaching “make your check come at they neck / disrespect us? no they won’t.” 

“Girls” has a harder edge than her milestone “Independent Women Pt. 1,” but is nowhere near the gritty, futuristic chic of “Diva,” complete with Brian Lichtenberg headgear. 

— Matt Donnelly

Apr 24

KELLY ROWLAND ‘MOTIVATION’

Famous from her Destiny’s Child days, Kelly Rowland has shown the world that she can produce great songs with different sounds and beats. She has made the club scene take notice of her with “When Love Takes Over”, “Commander” and “Rose Coloured Glasses”.

And now she has just released something very different.’Motivation’, written by Rico Love and produced by Jim Jonsin, has Lil Wayne lending his vocals to this very mellow, sultry track. The single differs from the many dance-friendly tunes played in clubs across the country. The music video for “Motivation” has just been filmed, in which Kelly Rowland is seen wearing a skimpy outfit and surrounded by a collection of hot males and females. Only a “teasing” photo has been released showing one scene from the clip with all the hot bodies. The music video will be available in April, but the song has been described by Rowland as a mix of dance and mashup.

“Motivation” is the lead single from her upcoming third solo album, and it will be released before the album is available. Just last week the electronic re-mix, produced by Diplo, was premiered on Rap-Up.

Talking about the music video, Kelly said, “I’m aiming for a very sexy, feminine video and I’m looking for womanly, sexy designs.” The visuals were filmed in Los Angeles.

The teaser-photo of the “Motivation” music video has caused much activity on the web. But another never-before-heard song by Kelly Rowland also has web traffic buzzing. The song, ‘What a Feeling’, recorded by famous DJ, Alex Gaudino, has gone viral. According to some reports, the song is going to be his official new single.

Her new album will be available later this year.

Kelly Rowland ‘Motivation’

Written by Mike Petryczkowycz, junior editor at KOvideo.

Apr 23

In Love and Heartbreak, Age Matters by AMELIE CHANCE

For someone who writes about relationships, it is pretty risky to make the statement that age matters; however, I believe in speaking the truth. I also believe in voicing the concerns of the those that visit this site. From this vantage point and with respect to love and heartbreak, age definitely matters.

Here is the reason why: we each have a grand plan for our life based on age. It goes something like this:

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Apr 23

When Your Heart & Mind Disagree About The Break-Up by AMELIE CHANCE o

You are sitting with your cell phone staring at a text message you wrote to your ex hours ago. You debate whether to send it or not. You stare at your phone while your mind tells you to have more respect for yourself. You logically understand that sending the message is not going to make the situation any better – nor will it heal your pain. Then your heart enters the scene and overpowers your mind. Your heart says, “Go ahead, send it, you will feel better…temporarily at least.”

The scenario above represents one example of a misalignment between your heart and your mind that is a common occurrence after a break up. Every decision you make is determined by a combination of your logic and emotion. If these different elements that make you who you are happen to conflict, you will understandably feel conflicted and make decisions that reflect this turmoil.

The concept of alignment will help you understand why you may have been in a relationship that was not good enough for you. It will also help you understand how to use your logic to help heal your broken heart. Let’s look at some more examples of what happens when your heart and mind disagree with one another.

Scenario 1 – During the Relationship

Your mind says, “I deserve more – this relationship is not right.”

Your heart says, “Stay, it will work out.”

If you were in a relationship where it was obvious that you were not receiving the love, respect, and engagement that you deserve, then your mind was probably nudging you during the relationship and asking you, “Why are we still here?” You remained in that relationship for longer than you should have because your heart believed that your mate and relationship could change.

Your heart believed that it was better to be in a relationship that was mediocre than to be alone. Your heart was saying to you, “Hey, give it a chance, it’s not that bad.” Your mind and heart were not aligned and this probably led to fighting, to an internal struggle, and eventually the break up. Often when we want more from a relationship than we are getting, we continually try to get ‘more’ by attempting to change the person we are with or by forcing other changes in the relationship. This is generally a destructive path.

Apr 23

Every Failed Relationship Has Its Own Unique Storyline, But In The End, We All Hurt From Heartbreak

My research coupled with feedback from thousands of clients has made it evident that while each story is unique, there are also common hurdles in the road to recovery. These hurdles can be addressed and you can feel better. Right now is the most critical time of your life – the action you take right now can have the greatest impact on how fast and effectively you heal.

Heartbreak can hold you back by:

Affecting other areas of your life

Diminishing your self-confidence

Making you question your decisions

Step to Heal can help by:

Addressing urgent issues including:

Loneliness, Emptiness, Anxiety, Panic, Jealousy

Constant Negative Thoughts, Lack of Closure, Insomnia

Adding back into your life:

Hope, Fulfillment, Optimism, Gratitude, and even Excitement

http://steptoheal.healmybrokenheart.com/

Apr 23

It’s OK to ask Why…

Most friends and family would tell you not to ask WHY this happened in your life and to just have faith it will get better. I couldn’t disagree more. If you were married or lost your soulmate, understanding why the relationship didn’t continue on and why you are in the place you are at this stage in your life is OK. In fact, more than OK, it is vital to helping you stop the pain and fear of what lies ahead.This is something I have given a lot of thought and have put a lot of research hours into determining.

How can it be a good thing that a love in our life is gone? How can it be OK that we are 20, 30, 40…insert your age…and this type of break up is happening in our lives? WHY this is happening is one of the aspects of Step to Heal that will move you through this pain. This sounds heavy, but it something that you would get to in any type of counseling or therapy…it would just take a lot longer to address.

I am here to hold your hand and direct you through this heartbreak. You will feel better by having a step by step program to work through your pain. It is terrible when you feel overwhelmed by a break up, but even worse is wondering what to do with your time day after day. I’m telling you what to do now – get on the Step to Heal program. Use your time productively to heal.

http://steptoheal.healmybrokenheart.com/

Apr 23

You Can Fool Your Family and Friends, but You Can’t Fool Yourself.

Mentally check off the things you’ve found yourself thinking lately:

“I have a knot in the pit of my stomach all day long – an actual physical pain.”

“I either cannot eat at all or when I DO eat I eat everything I can to try to make me feel better.”

“I know our relationship had problems, but I still have a feeling of overwhelming loss.”

“I check my messages every 5 minutes – I’m not sure what I’m expecting, but I expect something.”

“I keep trying to figure out when it really went wrong.”

“The thought of dating again is absolutely inconceivable to me.”

“I lie in bed thinking this was not suppose to be the way my life turned out.”

“I lie in bed thinking I cannot believe this is happening to me at this stage and age in my life.”

http://steptoheal.healmybrokenheart.com/

Apr 23

How do I get rid of Constant Negative Thoughts?

If you just say “Stop” to your negative thoughts, that doesn’t work, because that advice is missing a key ingredient. You need to assess what it is that you’re thinking, what triggers the thought, and then apply two specific techniques which both involve writing to combat the thoughts. These writing techniques can be so effective that you are often able to eliminate the thoughts within a few days.

Another common question involves what you should do with empty weekends and during times you used to spend with your ex. You may have heard that you should consume yourself in other activities like hanging out with friends, going to dinner, catching a movie etc., but those things may be difficult unless you are able to stay engaged in the activity and keep your mind from wandering to thoughts of your break-up. Within Step to Heal, we will go in-depth into techniques you can utilize to keep actively engaged.

I want to teach you how to use all of the techniques based in Positive Psychology that will heal your broken heart. So it’s time to take action.

http://steptoheal.healmybrokenheart.com/

Apr 23

What if We Still Work or Live Together? What if We Share Children?

You may still work together, share children together, or for some reason still live together. These situations add obvious complications to a break-up, and they are addressed separately in Step to Heal. For the time being, you need to make one commitment to yourself: take care of your mental health. It is time to take some space for yourself mentally, even if it is not possible to do so physically. Yes, you may have to do deal with your ex physically, but you can determine to start focusing inward and take care of your mental needs. We go in-depth on this subject in Step to Heal.

http://steptoheal.healmybrokenheart.com/